Thursday, October 9, 2008

ATTACHMENT


It's a word which people are generally scared of ..they say attachment always hurts ,brings miseries to our life.

Though they know that a coin has two faces but they always see that face which hurts , brings miseries to them.They forget those moments which brought a childish smile on their face ,the moment when they considered this world a beautiful place to live in..

There are people who seldom get attached to anyone and such people are spared by many miseries of life but they never get to see the happiest moment of their life...

I do agree that attachments to anything ,either that be your family member ,your friend ,your love or even your pets 'n' toys may hurt, ,make you face miseries when they are far or not with you but they also must have shown you the happiest moment of your life....

You must have seen a child crying after his toy breaks , it's a misery for him but that's the only toy which would must have made that baby giggle, enjoy 'n' happy..Breaking of toy brings misery but it doesn't mean at all that child should stop playing with toys.....

Now I live in a hostel , thousand miles away from my home , when i return back to hostel after vacations i feel very sad 'n' even cry..IT's a misery for me but that doesn't mean at all that i should stay back in hostel in vacation n never visit home..it hurts while i am returning back but we should try to feel those happy moments when we are to reach our home after vacation begins......

If I'll have to compare life of a person who is attached to something or someone with a person who seldom gets attached to anything..THEN ;
Latter's life is like a metro train which always smoothly runs on its sweet pace with few stoppage in between..BUT former's life is like the TITANIC ship 'n ' may be if things go well then IT'll n'er meet any ICEBERG 'n' THE HEART 'LL GO ON.......

18 comments:

Jahnabi said...

Rahul, very well-expressed.

I, however, have some different and possibly strange views about attachment.

Since the beginning of October, I have joined a Bhagvad Gita study group and so far we have discussed the major topics in the first and second chapter of the Gita. One very interesting thing that the Gita said was on identity - that all beings are eternal, they're never born and they never die. Therefore, all earthly pleasure are meaningless, including your physical body - that is not really you. All relationships are meaningless!

I also learned that Jainism considers human emotions and bonding to be a sign of weakness.

Just thought I would share these views with you. I, of course, agree with you on the joy of relationships and also on the sadness that it might bring.

Keep writing! :)

R@|-||_||_ $ING|-| said...

thnks for ur earnest advice yaar..

sukant said...

pduga bad me phele publishing house khol rha hu tere poem ko le kar

sukant said...

waise bhut acha hai ab expression to hai nahi mere me to kya likh paunga

sunpreet said...

its very gud
most influencing thing i ever read
frm my heart
indeed its a very impact leaving thing
keep on doin these things
GOD BLESS U

R@|-||_||_ $ING|-| said...

thnks ladi..!!.

Rajneesh searching for authentication..... said...

yaar i exactly do not agree with u....bt u have said ur SELF very accurately....and wat i do not agree is ur generellisation of all...

R@|-||_||_ $ING|-| said...

Thnks for ur critics..
may be different ppl have different views about some topic..but its the result of survey over more than 100 ppl..n great vivekanand also said something similar..
so may once in life u'll get a opportunity to get attached to something or somebody then u'll appreciate what i have said..

varnika said...

hey...vry nice!!!

nice.....feelings..u tryng to frgt sm1 bt...i knw these heart matters.......
bt good!!

m also on blogspot.....visit my sit...naughtyvarnika.blogspot.com...
m 2 frm hansraj!!
keep writing sch things...

R@|-||_||_ $ING|-| said...

thnks a lot for ur comments..
but what do u mean by i m in hansraj too..m not in hansraj..
nywys thnks..

siddharth said...

may be Gita or Jainism is rit....
but i can or will never accept it....
well done bro.....keep it up...

R@|-||_||_ $ING|-| said...

thnks bro..

Divya said...

Yaar,
I had nevr thought this way..
But, u r actually very correct.
Gr8 thinking, yaar..
Aur, expression aur writing skills to amazing hai hi.

Divya said...

Yaar, very frankly, this write up of urs touched my heart.

R@|-||_||_ $ING|-| said...

again thnks a lot to u divya..

R@|-||_||_ $ING|-| said...

i hav written wateva my heart said so it must touch ur heart..

dipti said...

Rahul, this is very well written..keep up the good work!!

R@|-||_||_ $ING|-| said...

hey kancha!!!
thanks a loy for your comments.